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Family Office Executive Assistant: salary, job description and hiring

What a executive assistant does in a family office, what the role pays across the US, and how we recruit for it.

Updated October 2026

The executive assistant supports the principal or senior staff with calendars, travel, correspondence and personal logistics, often across several homes.

Family Office Executive Assistant salary

We estimate $90K–$150K base salary for a executive assistant at a US single family office managing $250M–$1B, with a typical bonus of 10–20%. Smaller offices pay about 15% less and $1B+ offices about 20% more.

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Estimated base salary at US single family offices. A starting point, not an offer. How we estimate.

Executive assistant salary by city

CityBase salary (estimate)
New York City$105K–$170K
Chicago$95K–$155K
Dallas$90K–$150K
Houston$90K–$145K
Los Angeles$100K–$165K
Miami$90K–$155K
Palm Beach$95K–$155K
Boston$95K–$160K
San Francisco Bay Area$105K–$170K
Seattle$95K–$160K
Atlanta$90K–$145K
Austin$90K–$150K

Family Office Executive Assistant job description

  • Manage complex calendars and travel
  • Handle correspondence and confidential documents
  • Coordinate with household staff and vendors
  • Track personal and household deadlines
  • Support events and family gatherings

Skills and background

  • Organization
  • Discretion
  • Anticipating needs
  • Clear writing
  • Flexibility

Typical background: 5+ years supporting a senior executive or principal.

Executive assistant interview questions

  1. How do you manage a calendar across three time zones and two homes?
  2. Tell me about a time you anticipated a problem before it happened.
  3. How do you handle a confidential request from a family member?
  4. What tools do you use to stay organized?

More in our guide to family office interview questions.

How we recruit a executive assistant

We run contingent searches for this role: a brief with you (and the principal where it matters), a shortlist of three to five vetted candidates, confidential interviews, and support through the offer and the first 90 days. Start a search.

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What does a family office executive assistant earn?

We estimate $90K–$150K base salary at a US single family office managing $250M–$1B, plus a typical bonus of 10–20% of base. Pay varies by city and office size.

What does a family office executive assistant do?

The executive assistant supports the principal or senior staff with calendars, travel, correspondence and personal logistics, often across several homes.

What background does a executive assistant need?

5+ years supporting a senior executive or principal.

How do you recruit a executive assistant?

We usually run a contingent search: a brief with the family, a vetted shortlist, confidential interviews and help closing the offer.

Get in touch

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